Do you tink that things have changed since you got married?
YES~ But it's OK. We don't have as much time for each other, but we try!
For the better or for the worse?
Just change~ I'm as happy today as the day we got married, but things are different. We are more settled, less adventurous, more content.
Do youfind that you take eacher for granite?
We try not to take each other for granted, but sure, sometimes it happens. Be polite, say thank you for everything your spouse does for you!
Are there any expectations?
Yep~ I excpect mutual respect, I expect the benefit of the doubt, and I expect to grow old together.
Would you change anythimg?
Not a chance.
We have been together for 11 years, married for 6. We have a great 2 1/2 year old, and are having our second child in 11 days
My wife is still beautiful, still my best friend, and still makes me get antsy when I'm on a plane home from business meetings. I always have to watch my speed on my way home from the airport. I can't wait to get home! I don't expect that to ever change.
Marraige is difficult, and it is worth it. Sure, you may differ, but as long as your core values line up nicely, you can be successful in marraige.
Sure, the shine comes off the apple after some time, but those core values and beliefs make you want to grow old together. I can't wait to retire and explore this world with my wife and family, and I'm only 31...