Lack of love (s..)
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Speaking from experience, it makes me lonely.
BUT, that very thing has also taught me that it is better to be lonely than unhappy.
my $2/100
BUT, that very thing has also taught me that it is better to be lonely than unhappy.
my $2/100
Not quite sure what you mean? But taking a stab at it......I'm not sure I've ever felt lack of love, that wasn't mutual. I've been pretty blessed w/ people that care about me. One thing tho that's bummed me out and makes me sad is when someone you thought really cared about you never makes any attempt to ever really talk to you again and basically treats you like you never existed. That's where I'd felt the lack of love and honesty........
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So basically it has made me feel very sad....even tho, it's in the past it still gets you sometimes....
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I tried to kill it and get rid of that emotion once. Those three blind witches threw and angel out of the sky at me in the form of Cassie to make me think twice about eradicating that emotion.
QUOTE(HazyMemory @ Jan 26 2004, 04:50 PM)I tried to kill it and get rid of that emotion once. Those three blind witches threw and angel out of the sky at me in the form of Cassie to make me think twice about eradicating that emotion.
Hazy ~ that is so sweet. I hope that makes Cassies heart melt when she reads that. She's a lucky girl!!!!
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Every person deserves to feel that they are loved - if you're not feeling the love, then you need to surround yourself with someone that will love you. You can't meet someone and wait forever for them to love you either...either they do, or they don't unfortunately. In ny eyes, the risk is always worth the outcome no matter what so KEEP ON LOOKING FOR LOVE GIRL!!!
Until then - get a kitten. They'll love you unconditionally w/no strings attached and NEVER talk back to you! LOL
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Hazy ~ that is so sweet. I hope that makes Cassies heart melt when she reads that. She's a lucky girl!!!!
Every person deserves to feel that they are loved - if you're not feeling the love, then you need to surround yourself with someone that will love you. You can't meet someone and wait forever for them to love you either...either they do, or they don't unfortunately. In ny eyes, the risk is always worth the outcome no matter what so KEEP ON LOOKING FOR LOVE GIRL!!!
Until then - get a kitten. They'll love you unconditionally w/no strings attached and NEVER talk back to you! LOL
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You don't see anything wrong with me do you?
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On second thought, don't answer that.
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On second thought, don't answer that.
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I 've been on my own for a long time.
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marriage was in trouble since 99
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1. filed for divorce in May 02
2. moved out of house Aug 02
3. got back together Oct 02
4.seperated again March 03
5. divorce final June 03
feel like I haven't lived a normal life in years!!
I miss the affection & I liked taking care of someone.
Fortunatley for me I have my kids to love.
My oldest pretends she doesn't love me but I know she does
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......my two younger daughters bring so much joy and love to my life!
I have my friends also! Laney & Kim.
& I've gotten closer to my parents
I guess the only time I really struggle w/ it is on my "no kids" weekends.....I have moments where I wonder if there is something wrong w/ me or if I made good decisions for myself
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marriage was in trouble since 99
1. filed for divorce in May 02
2. moved out of house Aug 02
3. got back together Oct 02
4.seperated again March 03
5. divorce final June 03
feel like I haven't lived a normal life in years!!
I miss the affection & I liked taking care of someone.
Fortunatley for me I have my kids to love.
My oldest pretends she doesn't love me but I know she does
I have my friends also! Laney & Kim.
& I've gotten closer to my parents
I guess the only time I really struggle w/ it is on my "no kids" weekends.....I have moments where I wonder if there is something wrong w/ me or if I made good decisions for myself
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QUOTE(Shandog @ Jan 26 2004, 10:26 PM)QUOTE(Taxman @ Jan 26 2004, 08:42 PM) Kats' mom is visiting from Yugoslavia for two months ;
i recommended for her to get a kitten, not her mom to live with
i'd rather be shot versus live with my mom again for two months.
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ditto diggity! ..
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lived with my ex-inlaws for the first 4 months when I moved here. I pleaded and begged with my husband for us to move - for the sake of our marriage... he wouldn't budge....
so one day, while he was at work.. I simply packed up and got my own place ...
i recommended for her to get a kitten, not her mom to live with
i'd rather be shot versus live with my mom again for two months.
ditto diggity! ..
lived with my ex-inlaws for the first 4 months when I moved here. I pleaded and begged with my husband for us to move - for the sake of our marriage... he wouldn't budge....
so one day, while he was at work.. I simply packed up and got my own place ...
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...keep me away from this thread because I am having a "PEOPLE SUCK" day.
HOWEVER..........
It makes me appreciate the people that I have in my life that are "there" NO MATTER what...and it's really all that matters...and if they weren't....
At least I have myself to count on
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...cuz every little thing's gonna be alright, right?
And KAT...you only get one mom. I'd trade a kitten to have mine back ANY DAY.
ok...enough blah, blah, blah from me. Carry on.
HOWEVER..........
It makes me appreciate the people that I have in my life that are "there" NO MATTER what...and it's really all that matters...and if they weren't....
At least I have myself to count on
...cuz every little thing's gonna be alright, right?
And KAT...you only get one mom. I'd trade a kitten to have mine back ANY DAY.
ok...enough blah, blah, blah from me. Carry on.
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my ma could come live with me anytime, just was just a typical in-law thing...
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(Kat... I'd miss my Ma too if she lived so far away) ... heck, mine only lives a few hours away... and I can't stand that.
QUOTE(jewels @ Jan 26 2004, 04:41 PM)Not quite sure what you mean? But taking a stab at it......I'm not sure I've ever felt lack of love, that wasn't mutual. I've been pretty blessed w/ people that care about me. One thing tho that's bummed me out and makes me sad is when someone you thought really cared about you never makes any attempt to ever really talk to you again and basically treats you like you never existed. That's where I'd felt the lack of love and honesty........
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So basically it has made me feel very sad....even tho, it's in the past it still gets you sometimes....
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I know exactly whaat you mean I've been there. I've put lots of time and effort in past relatioships and have been hurt afterword. I thought that only on Opera or Maurry Povich did husbands cheat on their wives with their best friend until it happened to me
I know exactly whaat you mean I've been there. I've put lots of time and effort in past relatioships and have been hurt afterword. I thought that only on Opera or Maurry Povich did husbands cheat on their wives with their best friend until it happened to me
QUOTE(MaryJane @ Jan 26 2004, 08:33 PM)It made me more of an independent woman if that makes sense.
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I realized if i want something to go out and get it for myself because that yahoo wasn't going to give it to me.
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Yes I agree you live and learn and that is one of the lessons that I learned
I realized if i want something to go out and get it for myself because that yahoo wasn't going to give it to me.
Yes I agree you live and learn and that is one of the lessons that I learned
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QUOTE(Kat @ Jan 27 2004, 05:21 AM)AAaaHhhhhhh!!!
I needed some relief and got it life is good again.
Has the Taxman been working over-time?
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I needed some relief and got it life is good again.
Has the Taxman been working over-time?
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