[surfergirlck]

first i want to thank everyone for the wonderful, super words you have all given me. i love you guys very much for it, more than you'll know. you've helped a lot.

this is a crappy situation, and since it is my situation, here's my words and then that is that:

rumpshaker and i are no longer dating. he blantenly lied to me, and went out with someone else behind my back. although it was an innocent outing, i don't stand for that at all given the circumstances. we have talked, not screamed, (lol) with each other and we both understand what happened to some degree.

we are still going to be friends, so please... no one feel uncomfortable if we should be in the same room, although from what he tells me he won't be coming around much. i wish him the best, as he does me. i still think he's a pretty nice guy.... to some points (

) and we'll miss wall action.

so that's the gist, folks. thanks again for your lovin' support! my poor pm in box! lol! you guys rock!

good luck, rump! thanks hammer!

you rock,too!

 

[RED HOT ONE]

SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THAT CK.

ALL MY BEST WISHES FOR YOU TO GET OVER IT QUICKLY!!!

I AM SURE YOU WILL BE FINE IN NO TIME...

EVEN THOUGH I HAVEN`T MET YOU YET I CAN STILL TELL YOU ARE A SWEETHEART

YOU DESERVE BETTER

 

[Goose]

more hugs to CK, with extra cowbell!!!!!

ok, now that it's over, can we take bets on Rumps next victim (JK Greg)

 

[Snowbi-Wan]

Now you can hook up with the ebay coupon seller pen pal guy.

 

[samson]

My best to both of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We all dig you guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Madmax]

Sorry ,

 

[traveler]

Hugs are good, Licks are gooder!!

 

[WETBAR]

I'm glad you guys at least got together long enough to stumble across my AKA "WETBOX"!!

 

[beachbum]

sorry to hear that CK...

 

[Mr. Big]

Did I miss something??

I know I've been down and out lately...............in all seriousness, hope everything works out for both of ya'!

 

[surfergirlck]

QUOTE(Snowmaker @ Oct 28 2003, 02:06 PM)Now you can hook up with the ebay coupon seller pen pal guy.

yes, now i have more time to mingle and cavort with my ebay penpal. lmao with that one snowbi!

 

[BoatChic]

Best to both of you's.

 

[The Perfect Fit]

CK, I got the pm back from you and your welcome. My system at work wouldn't let me reply back to you....

 

[Snowbi-Wan]

QUOTE(surfergirlck @ Oct 28 2003, 03:18 PM)QUOTE(Snowmaker @ Oct 28 2003, 02:06 PM) Now you can hook up with the ebay coupon seller pen pal guy.

yes, now i have more time to mingle and cavort with my ebay penpal. lmao with that one snowbi!

The way you to argue, ... its like you're already married.

 

[surfergirlck]

QUOTE(Snowmaker @ Oct 28 2003, 04:00 PM)QUOTE(surfergirlck @ Oct 28 2003, 03:18 PM) QUOTE(Snowmaker @ Oct 28 2003, 02:06 PM) Now you can hook up with the ebay coupon seller pen pal guy.

yes, now i have more time to mingle and cavort with my ebay penpal. lmao with that one snowbi!

The way you to argue, ... its like you're already married.

hey now... no 'm' word! lol!
time for a nap.. i need one!

 

[Snowbi-Wan]

QUOTE(surfergirlck @ Oct 28 2003, 04:07 PM)hey now... no 'm' word! lol!
And then you could divorce him and get half his coupons.

I'll stop now.

 

[HazyMemory]

QUOTE(Snowmaker @ Oct 28 2003, 04:13 PM)QUOTE(surfergirlck @ Oct 28 2003, 04:07 PM) hey now... no 'm' word! lol!
And then you could divorce him and get half his coupons.

I'll stop now.

That's out of charicter for you to stop snowbie?? Something wrong??

So that's how mature people end relationships? Good for you both.

 

[damn yankee]

I'm so sorry to hear that CK...

It was never meant to be, and I absolutely think that you did the right thing. I myself will compromise to the nth degree with anyone I'm dating, but I draw the line just like you. The other person crosses it, and it's over.
<_<

C'mon out to TNT's tonight, and make some new memories with the LSCN folks!

 

[MaryJane]

sorry to hear that CK. You and Rump are both good people.

the bad thing about dating someone from the 'group' is that everyone finds out about it and makes their own assumptions.
I know. first hand

Keep on keepin' on!!

 

[surfergirlck]

mj that is so true. that's why i chose to talk to hammer to get the facts, & then to confront rump about it humanely, so that i could post something that would make everyone understand what happened with facts, not speculation, especially since some peeps saw the original post, and i didn't want to be plagued with 'where's rumpie' questions at functions.

as a moderator and key member of the site, i think it was essential to handle this albeit personal matter in a way not threatening nor offending to anyone.

yeah, having your love life blast across the board & having people talking about it sucks when it goes downhill, but if that was going to happen, i wanted the facts to be prevelent. i hurt. life moves on.

is this what it feels like to be in the enquirer? lol!!